One good way for our children to learn self-discipline is when we give
them limited choice and let them live with the consequences of what they
choose. There will be times when you cannot let them choose, for example, when
you consider something is dangerous for them. When you have to say no, it is
important to state the reason. It is also important not to be half-hearted or
apologetic when you give children a limited choice. Follow through with the
consequences. Most of us do not follow through with the consequences; this is
why they don’t take us seriously. Your
firmness in following through on the consequences is much more effective than
talking. Firmness is not cold, it is
kind and strong, gentle and firm, flowing out of your desire for what is best
for the child.
For informational
purposes*
It is against the law in the UK for a parent to use
physical punishment on their child that causes marks and it is illegal to use
an implement to hit a child. It is also
against the law for someone who is not the child's parent (such as a child minder
or foster carer) to use any form of physical punishment.
*source:
Greenwich Safeguarding Children Board
Best regards,
Dupe
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